What is your kid enthusiastic about?
When my youngest was small (ages 3-8), he was obsessed with Cars (yes, capitalized, because I'm referring to the Pixar movie). 🥰 He developed a love of (lower case) cars as a result of the film (the best my husband and I can tell). This love of cars went up through his early teens. I can remember the countless hours of him playing with matchbox-sized cars (many in the form of Cars characters), lining them up, creating storylines, and making his own story with them coming to life (stop motion app, using mom or dad's phone).
He's older now and his tastes have changed. Cars (upper or lower case) no longer hold his attention. His loves have changed: geography, maps of the world, to trains, and then subway/transit systems. He is so interested (remember being on the spectrum, a super power is having clarity about your passion), he is participating in community board on transit for teens, various community events (openings, trivia nights, etc.), and wants to go into this field (city planning, transit advisor) as a career.
He has started collecting model subway cars to add to his already vast transit map collection. For his birthday, he asked for more models. He has traditionally wanted only completed models, but we thought we'd get him a kit and see if he'd enjoy building one. My husband has built model kits before (planes), so our sons have seen some of the joy this brings to their dad.
When our son opened the kit, we thought our chances were 50-50 that he'd want to build it, vs. having us send it back. I asked him if he'd like to work on it together and he said, "I'd like to work on this with dad because he's done these things before." I smiled—partially because he wanted to build it, and two, he wanted my husband's help and not mine (I'm sure I could have helped him, but not sure I would have been the best partner). 😊
He and my husband set out working on the model subway car each night. Watching them work together on the build was something. There was excitement (for the model taking form), stress (oh no, we threw out the roof think it was trash, go check the recycling!), relief (thank goodness it wasn't recycle pick-up week), and quiet love as they worked on the model figuring it out piece by piece. This model build may be the most special one for my son (and husband), since they built it together.
What have you and your child done together that's been special and/or brought you closer?
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